The first and most vital step in hookup culture

For many youngsters, college is a place for real pleasure and enjoyment. You finally get rid of your childhood reputation, get rid of your parents and the tiring teenager life. You are surrounded by many attractive and desirable people. When enjoying freedom, they finally have a private space for themselves to meet their desire.

Although in the past several years, our concept for hookup culture has been reverted, there are still many young people do not know what they should do with one night hookup. There are extremely short of experience. What is even more depressing is that they do not know what should be specially noted. They are far away from the final success of a hookup.

Finding a nice tinder hookup experience is like moving forward in a mud. Even till this day, hookup culture is somewhat like a trade, which forces students to engage in one night hookup willingly and voluntarily. Part of the reason is the meaning of hookup. It gives out a vague meaning based on different people who is talking about it. It can vary from a kiss to sexual activities. Although hookup often happen between people who are not in a relationship, it can be with anyone you know from strangers to sexual partners. Here is something you should know if you want hookup culture to serve your purpose to find friends.

You need to know how to express your needs to make sure you will be satisfied while satisfying your partner. Even when you are making love with your significant other in the coming future, this is a must skill you must acquire.

Start from being honest with yourself. Think what you can get from it and what you like. This process can happen inside of your head or you can also make a list according to your answers “yes”, “no” or “probably”. For example, ask yourself, is it something I really want? You may say yes. If there is something you definitely don’t want to try, then say No. For another example, a Yes can be a position you like or a kink you enjoy. But if you have no interest in trying BDSM, role play, etc, then No is an unnegotiable answer.

You also have “probably” for things you are not sure of. For example, going to your place or his, or a hotel? Staying over or not? One time or long-term hookup? If you are not sure, you can try and see how it goes. In other words, your mind can be changed regarding to these issues.

Making such a list obviously needs you to know exactly what you like and dislike. By doing this, you can also find out if hookup is really suit for you, because as a matter of fact, not all people are hookup material. This is the first and the most vital thing in hookup culture.